I got back to my seat and my wife asked me did I speak to her. I said no as she was unaware she had even done anything. I knew at that moment this was what I needed to bring across my example of forgiveness. I could have chosen not to forgive her for that situation and allowed the next 3 hours to be a bad flight then a hour ride home to be just as bad. This would have been my choice. The woman not knowing what she did would have went on with her life with not a care as to what happened. I on the other hand would have always remembered it every time I got on a plain. That is what unforgiveness does. It creates a place in our minds which becomes a place of anger or hurt towards something or someone. while the other person is unaware sometimes of what they have even done.
my wife understood from that point on. what about you is it time to forgive someone.