someone else happy.
As my mother used to tell me, don’t marry the girl you can live with—marry the girl you can’t live without!
Marriage should be as equal as possible, as sharing as possible. You should talk together, pray together, love together, discuss together, and then decide and
One very important thing that is often overlooked in a marriage is for both partners to have faith in God and Jesus Christ. When you have faith, everything is
possible, and you can do all things through Christ.
In marriage you die to self, but you find new life.
Don’t forget to thank her; don’t forget to thank him. Gratitude is a great thing in married life. Show appreciation!
Two of the greatest assets to a good marriage are honesty and a sense of humor.
“Whatsoever things are true, honest, just, pure, lovely, of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things!” That applies to
your spouse as well. Try to remind yourself constantly of his or her good qualities—the good things—and try not to think about the bad things.
Say “I love you” a hundred times a day!
Marriage is more than sex or friendship or a business partnership. It is the most intimate, humbling, loving, and self-sacrificial relationship between human
beings in all of life. “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” This is love, real love, true love—the willingness of a
husband to sacrifice himself for his wife, the eagerness of a wife to lay down her life for her husband. This is supernatural love, divine love, God’s love, more
Marriage is so difficult in today’s society. There are countless temptations—not just to cheat on your spouse, but to be selfish, to assert your independence, to
insist on your so-called rights over another individual. All of these stem from people’s desires to promote themselves, and they run counter to God’s idea that
self-sacrifice is the way to happiness.
Thinking of your spouse first is the secret to married happiness. You give up old habits, old preferences, and old ways in favor of the new, in favor of this
wonderful person God has put in your life. In doing so out of love, you find great happiness because God blesses unselfishness; He blesses your sacrificially
yielding to another person’s needs and wishes and seeking their well-being, even above your own.
Matthew 17:20 (ESV) He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this
mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.”
Philippians 4:13 (ESV) I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:8 (ESV) Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is
commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.