Men what is leadership? Quite often the worlds idea of leadership is based on the measures of success. How far you get no matter who you step on. No one ever speaks of the leaders who lead by sacrifice. Men who give of themselves by forgoing the game to be with their families. No one ever speaks of the man who seeks help for the addiction that is running his life because he does not want his son or daughter to be in the same spot he is now in. Even though he risks it all to become free. I am not saying it will be easy sometimes the hard things in life make us risk it all. I am not saying that your wife will stay with you because when you come clean you are risking it and there is going to be damage. These secrets hurt and they requiring payment. Leading is doing what you don't want to do when you know you need to do it. Men lead and become the man God created in you to be.