Sometimes the hardest thing to do as men is admit we have a problem. From the worlds perspective we should be strong and has this outward sternness and inside we are yelling out in frustration. We have to look a certain way, drive a certain car, live in a certain house , in a certain community, in a certain town, have a certain job, watch a certain size TV, have a certain size bank account, invest in certain types of IRA. That is a lot of certainties. If you follow the worlds certain look you will certainly fail, you will certainly never live up to what the world wants you to have and be. Ultimately you will certainly be in bondage to more than one file to your addiction.
Step up into the light of Christ there are men willing to help you while God developed you to become the man He created you to be.